If you have to ask, then the answer is No, not yet.
Free and of own accord. That’s the first thing we ensure as part of initiation. So if you are not sure, then you might want to hang back a little.
It’s not a matter of just becoming a Mason either. It’s no longer a case of accepting all takers. But, if your petition is accepted, then decision is ultimately yours.
If you are stuck at this point, I can from experience present three simple arguments, one as to why many are unsure, two as a simple truth regarding Freemasonry to put it in perspective, and three as an exercise to set yourself at ease.
Doubt is normal.
In my years I have seen many candidates fail, tremble in fear, or ultimately back out. The fear of the unknown is the strongest argument for self preservation the mind can come up with. It's human nature. As such it is normal, and many brethren will tell you how they readied themselves for a fist fight before entering “just in case”. This is however unnecessary, and a first step of trust you have to take on your own.
We have all been through it, and survived.
On the flip side, Freemasonry has 6 million members worldwide that are alive and well. Ultimately every single member has gone through what you are dreading at the moment.
There is no blood, goats, sacrifice, or virgins waiting for you. And, as a brother will literally hold your hand throughout the proceedings, you have nothing to fear, but fear itself.
The expectation of hazing, physical harm and all the stories our detractors love to regurgitate, just builds on natural uncertainty. So please know that neither will be befall you.
Setting your mind at ease.
How can you be sure you are safe? One thing you can do, as you have some time, is verify the credentials of the Lodge. This is extremely quick to do, as any senior brother should know.
This seems trivial, but joining a clandestine branch of Masonry happens all to often, because the candidates simply have no idea of knowing.
Please make sure the Lodge falls under a Grand Lodge, Provincial Grand Lodge, or District Grand Lodge that is in amity with the United Grand Lodge of England (UGLE). This will ensure that as a Mason, you will be welcomed amongst your brothers anywhere in the world, and that the brethren of your new Lodge will look after you in the time honoured way.
Finally.
Joining Masonry was life changing for me and to most brethren. I hope that the choices you finally make will lead you on a path that is right for you.
If this leads you to join, it may just be one of the biggest turning points in your life. But it is up to you to embrace it.
Good luck, and keep us up to date!
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