Want to be the man that she constantly thinks about? It will be pretty simple after reading this article because I tell you how women think, and how to make a girl think about you non-stop! You have to connect on another level that most men don’t know how to do. So many women think, “If he only knew!” Well, you will know!
This article is designed to not only keep it real with you, but also to highlight something that has worked for many clients that have been able to get women to think about them non-stop. We women desire to be wanted by a man just like a man desires to be wanted from a woman. But the ultimate connection happens when you understand how a woman thinks. We are completely different than men in the way we process things and in terms of what makes us fall in love.
I invite you to leave comments or ask questions below in the comment section as I always love hearing from you!
How to make a girl want you…
It all starts with the emotional connection when you are able to connect with her. An emotional connection does not mean that you get overly emotional and attached, but it does mean you voice your desires early on. This means you show her that you are the guy that she wants. The time that you spend with her is very important in the attraction phase. Make sure you remain calm, cool and collected while you are attracting her. You do fun things and make things pretty light-hearted early on. Do not put pressure on her. She has to want to desire you. This is how you make your presence known.
So, once you start going out on dates and you want her to think about you non-stop, the goal is to remain in control of the situation. Do not tell her you want to be with her on the first, second, or third date. Also, do not get mad at petty things and throw a line like, “What kind of girl are you? Are you looking for something serious?” This is too aggressive.
I see many men going in head first too soon. Listen, things come up in life so try not to respond with ego if something happens. Let things progress naturally and do not try to force anything. The attraction phase is vital for this. This is when the woman is still trying to figure out if she desires you, if she desires you sexually, and if she desires to be with you long term. This is a sensitive area that a lot of men mess up. Keep in mind that a girl does not know you when you are in the beginning stages. This is whatwomen find attractive. I actually talk about 17 traits that make a woman attracted to you that you should check out after this.
A surefire way to spark her interest is to pace yourself and get to know her. You’ll have her attention when she sees that you are holding yourself of value. Men are visual creatures and when you see a perfect girl, you tend to go all in too soon because you’ve already decided this is what you wanted. But she hasn’t decided this yet. So, in turn, you start to get too intense, too early on. You may start assuming the worst of things if things do not go exactly how you want. Then you jump to conclusions and she could end up seeing you as someone who might not be secure with themselves or who might be too clingy in the future. This is what kills attraction. I bring this up now because this is something that happens often and in order to get her thinking about you non-stop, you have to make sure you do not kill the attraction early on.
How to get her with these 4 pro tips!
So you have been going on dates and things can be going well or semi-well. Here is what you do:
Tip #1 Do not be predictable! This is the most important thing of all. You want to show balance so she knows that she has to still to attract you and that she still has to do some work to get you. Example: If you text her “Good morning” or “Good night” all the time, then let her do it, too. Do not be the only one doing this as she has to show up in her ways too. Also, do not respond to her text to early on so she can get excited to see you on her phone. Let the anticipation build up before she sees you again.
Tip #2 – Be mysterious. Let her wonder what you are doing. Do not post every single second on social media about what you’re doing, what you’re eating, or what you’re thinking. Post less if you are active on social media. Also, mysterious means disappearing. You don’t want to disappear for too long but you want to disappear just enough so she wonders to what you are up too. If she texts you in the morning, say something like this later on that night:
“I’ve had such a busy day! I hope your day was great as well. I’m going to head to bed as I have a long day tomorrow. I’ll talk to you soon and goodnight.”
Then text her again in the morning so she sees you are present but still have a life of your own. This shows her that she is not yet your priority and ultimately women love this. It shows her that you have a sense of stability in your life and that you are fulfilled with the way you live it.
Tip #3 Do this a couple times. There are some coaches that will tell you to go off the radar for days but let’s be honest – if a woman is attractive she is not going to be turned on by this because she could think it’s shady. Instead, pop in and out on your terms. You are the busy one! Keep this up for about three days. When you start to engage in normal conversation again she is going to be thinking, “What is he up to?” She might think things like, “What is he doing that he is so invested in that he is not giving me all the time in his day?”
This stands out from a lot of other men and what they are doing right now. Remember you want to be less predictable which enhances the attraction phase. Most of the time this girl might even say, “When am I going to see you again?!” This is what you want!
This stands out from a lot of other men and what they are doing right now. Remember you want to be less predictable which enhances the attraction phase. Most of the time this girl might even say, “When am I going to see you again?!” This is what you want!
Tip #4 Making the plans after being busy. Let me clarify what I mean. You want to pop in here and there, but be less attentive during this 3 or 4 days. Do not reply to her texts all the time and don’t be too available. When you start chatting with her again, focus the conversations back on her and what she has been up to. Tell her you have been busy and that work has been crazy. You don’t want to fully answer exactly what you have been doing so you can spark the mystery.
Once you do this schedule something with her eventually. Why? The time that passes will get her excited to see you again. That time that passes will get her looking forward to a date with you. Say something like this when planning a date: “Hey, I’m busy the next two days but have some time Friday night. Would you like a grab a drink around 7 pm?” Make sure your texts are simple and to the point. You never want to become her text buddy.How to make a girl like you more!
The ultimate way to get a girl to want you or to think about you more is by living a life that you truly love. Never forget about your goals and aspirations, and do something daily that gets you closer to them. This is the ultimate source of attraction. Women love this! A man that is comfortable in his own skin and that has taken the time to work on himself and his own insecurities really play a part in a woman’s life. Not only because he is putting himself first, but because he sees himself as a desirable man. At the end of the day, if YOU see it then the chances of her seeing it will be increased. The man that always holds himself with pride and dignity is the man that will win. If a woman is not reciprocating then you walk away with your head up because you continue to put yourself first, just like you would want your woman to do the same.
on August 8, 2019 at 11:33 am
on August 5, 2019 at 6:53 pm
It’s good?
on July 30, 2019 at 9:18 pm
on July 31, 2019 at 9:36 am
Thanks for your comment! I have a couple of suggestions for you. #1 you’ve been believing the wrong information. You really just have to go for it and if you do get rejected take it as what you can learn from. Are you located in the California area or can fly in? I am doing a day of Pick Up with men in Sept for my Bootcamp along with another coach. See link here. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/bootcampticketsI also have a couple videos about this and a new one about how to overcome approach anxiety that I believe will help you. 🙂 https://youtu.be/BcpV-uMuNMY
Apollonia
on July 27, 2019 at 2:05 pm
my question is that i met a girl in nigeria i toast the girl we are now together but me am now in ivory coast and i want her to be thinking about me and we normally chat on facebook how can i do it
on July 22, 2019 at 11:40 am
I am a fundamentally unattractive man and so it is better for me not to approach any woman at all. I honestly believe that no woman could ever be attracted to me. I’ve been told (and read in many places online) that if I go to a gym, dress better, get a good haircut, etc., I’ll feel better about myself and that will help with my confidence around women. It doesn’t. At all. I go to the gym 3 times a week, swim 3 times a week, have a great wardrobe, have a cool haircut – but I still feel completely unattractive and so never approach women.
on July 22, 2019 at 5:32 pm
I’m sorry to hear this. Understand that your energy is going to attract how you feel. It seems like you might be comparing or setting a certain tone of what you should be and what would your life look like if you let go of that and didn’t put so much pressure on yourself to be a certain way. If you think you’re a “loser” which you’re not this comes down to something inside of you and sometimes that is an expectation that you have for yourself and comparison is the root of all evil. This comment shows me there is a certain expectation you have for yourself when looking in the mirror so what would happen if you just release that expectation and stop thinking you’re a “loser” because you’re not.
Apollonia
on July 22, 2019 at 9:52 pm
on July 25, 2019 at 12:11 am
on July 25, 2019 at 3:11 am
on July 18, 2019 at 9:54 pm
on July 20, 2019 at 8:39 am
on July 22, 2019 at 5:34 pm
Did you seem more interested in her than she did you? If so, just dial it back a bit and let her come to you a little more as you still be available and see what happens.
Apollonia
on July 13, 2019 at 9:38 pm
on July 9, 2019 at 5:31 am
on July 9, 2019 at 10:06 am
-Apollonia
on July 10, 2019 at 11:18 pm
on July 7, 2019 at 12:37 pm
on July 7, 2019 at 2:01 pm
Thanks for your great question. 100% no. I believe it’s about the investment within yourself. If you haven’t experienced this I would ask yourself how are you holding yourself back from getting what you want from women. Personal development wise how can you progress in your life. Remember people feel the energy that you put off so if you don’t fell 100% confident with yourself what will make you more confident in your life right now besides women. Then love will come. Hope this helps!
Apollonia
on July 10, 2019 at 11:56 am
on June 25, 2019 at 12:09 pm
on June 22, 2019 at 12:15 pm
for another worker . i got to know this women
who was a director of this company .
we did chat some times . how it happened was i was leaving one day after finishing the job and
she called me back said we never get to talk much come on in have some chat .
so i took it like its not harm . so i did being nice to her .
of course it did then later start to lead to she got angry with me one day .
when i arrived in . was 3 months from i was there said were to hell have you been i really miss you . i said ok as if to say what to hell you on about .
lets just be freinds i said to her is what i said when i realised what she was talking about .
of course it didnt go down to well like hell i want more than that she said.
now i dont understand how i got her attracted to me by just talking to her now and again . this lead to a lot of hanging around me when i went to do cover work there . ie she was all ways in the kitchen using laptop . would then be a massive smile as wide as her cheeks when i walked in . i started to feel uncomfortable with this . i was even followed in to toilets one day by her . said isnt it flustery out there today . im no longer in that work place any more but this went on for 3 years . even till this day i was told by some one from that place that she cant forget me . in other words she thinks about me nonstop all the time . im really confused how to hell did this happen to her i didnt do any thing on purpose for this to happen to her .
on June 19, 2019 at 9:49 pm
on June 25, 2019 at 5:23 pm
on July 4, 2019 at 12:29 pm
on April 29, 2019 at 3:42 pm
on April 15, 2019 at 10:37 am
on April 17, 2019 at 8:47 pm
on June 18, 2019 at 6:19 am
on April 11, 2019 at 3:09 pm
I was dating a girl for nearly 10 weeks and everything was great. We had fun, laughs, great sex and really opened up about our pasts. She would always initiate texts and I would always make fun plans for us. Whenever I didn’t ask to see her for a few days she would tell me she wanted to see me. One time she even got upset when I said I was tired and didn’t want to hang, that she didn’t get to see me enough that day. When she got fired she ran to me to cheer her up, when she got good news I was her first text. We went away for her birthday weekend and just had the best time. I gave her thoughtful gifts and made the weekend romantic and special. She told me how grateful she was for everything and had the best time. When we got back she made a bunch of plans with me but the next time we saw each other she said she wasnt feeling it and ended things. I really like this woman and am very confused. We have slept together since then and been out where she told me she had an amazing time. I want things back the way they were. What should I do?
on April 11, 2019 at 5:41 pm
Best,
Apollonia
on April 14, 2019 at 1:02 am
on April 10, 2019 at 11:32 am
Thanks for the wonderful article. I try to do these things so many times, and will continue to do so, but I am always afraid that when time goes by and she doesn’t contact me I’m losing her interest or she’s liking me less or all of that. This is definitely the slowest I’ve ever moved with a girl and it’s mainly because she’s super guarded, so I totally understand why we’re going slow. But it’s clear that she likes me and I like her so much as well! Between work and school she’s super busy! We text here and there. Phone calls here and there. Facetime here and there so I’m not too worried. But I always send the goodmorning text. My worry is what if I don’t and she doesn’t either? Or the questions I mentioned earlier?
Please help! And thank you!
on April 10, 2019 at 4:59 pm
Thank you for taking the time out to read my blog. I am glad that you are finding it helpful. Your concerns with what happens if both of you do not maintain contact can be overwhelming. If you would like a private coaching session to further discuss this and for me to give you tailored advice, here is my link: https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching-2-2/
Apollonia
on March 4, 2019 at 7:29 am
You know so much my gosh! Thank you for all the tips so far.
I met this girl 4months prior to this we started out just calling and texting and eventually it led to her admitting she liked me I did also we became very flirty with one another and this led to the first of love for one another how ever she always brings up we should act as friends any ideas why? And how to improve the situation? As well as she is very socialable and talks with a lot of guys.. but I do tend to feel jealous sometimes which I do not like feeling any tips?
on March 5, 2019 at 11:49 am
Yes, don’t get jealous and show her that you are wanted as well. I believe talking to other women and keeping your options open will be the best case scenario for you. It seems as though she is slightly taking advantage of these situations I would build on the mystery a bit and let her come to you.
Good luck! Thanks for reading my blog and I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Best,
Apollonia
on February 21, 2019 at 9:50 am
on February 10, 2019 at 4:27 pm
on January 16, 2019 at 10:37 am
on January 18, 2019 at 2:00 am
Thank you for reading my blog about how to make a girl think about you non-stop. How long have you been dating? I think the best thing to do in this situation is pull back a bit. See if she will initiate and reciprocate with you.
Best,
Apollonia
on January 8, 2019 at 7:22 am
Thank you for this wonderful piece.
I learned a lot from videos and this time on your blog.
on January 8, 2019 at 7:24 pm
The biggest problem is your waiting for her. Instead, you need to do things for you. Start getting busy! Start doing opposite and making a schedule for yourself so you are not 100% overbearing as you may be to her now. What you are doing is killing the attraction in order to build attraction you must pull away and also do things that interest you.I hope this helps and I’m here if you need any other support.
Best,
Apollonia
on January 15, 2019 at 5:52 pm
You just described my exact situation.
I hope things work out for you.
on February 12, 2019 at 1:46 am
on February 14, 2019 at 7:34 pm
Thanks for reading my blog about how to make a girl think about you non-stop! It’s not about faking it. It’s about really turning within and loving who you are. Investing in things that you want to try and do new things. This is how you will attract her. You might be putting too much energy on someone will not make them want to be with you.
Best,
Apollonia
on December 26, 2018 at 7:43 am
I Fall in love with an girl since 3 years but we never get the time to express ourself clearly,after somedays we both got engaged on talking with each other on mobile phone but by some reasons her mom got everything known.After that day I stoped texting and calling her and I left that collage,after one and a half years later she contacted me we both shared our feelings again we were in true love but again her mom came in middle and she warned me to stay away from her daughter or she will tell the cops I was stunned and we stopped again;I love her alot plz help me I wanna marry her Please help!!!
on December 26, 2018 at 4:06 pm
Thank you for reading this blog about how to make a girl think about you non-stop. I’m happy you enjoyed it. I know right now is difficult but I would encourage you to give her space and not push her so much on marriage as this will not attract her back to you. When you stop calling and texting you may get results.Hope this helps!
Best,
Apollonia
on July 26, 2019 at 1:01 pm
This girl did evrythng which is mentioned above ..
She was lyk missing me when m nt around ,giving me all d signs of wanting me ,she always wanted me wd her but without any commited reltnshp,evrytym we fought ,the word relationship was d problem…she let me behave lyk her bf before all thiss..n when i left after brkup she missed me lyk hell n this hppnd 2-3 tyms… ok in short,some of the signs were there that she wants me sexually.ok nw we fought again bcz we again talked after months n i was feeling lyk we were heading towards d relationship(she wrote a text once that here is a kid ,he smiles lyk u etc.) ,So when i was clearing evrythng,i mentioned few things from past that she’ done for me
(Wanting to meet me,physical flirty touch smtyms,missing me) ,i mentioned these thngs to knw her reaction (i provoked her somewhere to see her reaction),apollonia ,she denied evrythng lyk there was nothing between us,she nvr lykd or loved me ,she was never emotionally attached to me,n then i proceeded more that i m serious fr u ,we will marry
Etc n she was lyk nooooo u r thinking too much ,i dnt wnt a relationship n ol.. i m neutral fr this thing etc … I ws even laughing in midst of saying these stupid things abt marriage n ol bcz it was too soon.(n yes she always said her family wobt approve this relationship but still she said yes after saying no to my proposal last year in feb, ) then she said u’ll fing a better one than me 😁 (definitely we all this to avoid d situation)… Now tell me wht to do… Shud i tell her that look lets forget about relationship n lets have fun lyk we used to do in d beginning…. We olwys had a good chemistry ,lets reverse to 2017 evrythng will b fun… Relationship spoiled evrythng between us (smthng lyk this so she wud think lyk hell yeah no strings attached no commitmnt pressure n jst fun lyk she was expecting frm me) …. Tell me apollonia
on November 23, 2018 at 10:29 am
on November 23, 2018 at 2:46 pm
Thanks for your comment. It seems to me that she is into you. I would suggest asking her some questions if you haven’t already. Something like what are you looking for, or where do you see yourself in the next two years. Slowly hold her hand here and there and see how she reciprocates. Best of luck!
Best,
Apollonia
on November 22, 2018 at 3:52 pm
on November 23, 2018 at 2:50 pm
Have you tried just to initiate some outings with her? Lunch, dinner etc? Casually just be with eachother flirt and see where it goes. Don’t put any pressure on the situation and see if she would like to grab lunch one day if you have never asked her out before.
Best,
Apollonia
on November 19, 2018 at 12:33 pm
Thank you for the good job. Now for my case,
I do have this problem of fear! Whenever I see a beautiful lady, fear takes control of me and I fail to say hello, and instead walk a way. Most times I start to assume such a beautiful lady has a guy in her life because there is no way she can be without a man in her life because she is simply gorgeous, yet that is not the case with all the beautiful ladies.
So how do I develop courage to go and say hi without having that feeling of being, ” am going to be rejected.”
on November 19, 2018 at 7:09 pm
The answers to everything you asked is in this blog! 🙂 https://www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to-start-a-conversation-with-a-girl/
Also, understand that the nerves do not go away fast. It simply will be there until you continue to challenge yourself. You have to face your fears even when you are shaking and go after what you want. Read that blog and let me know what you think. Hope it helps!
Best,
Apollonia
on November 15, 2018 at 6:54 am
on November 18, 2018 at 2:50 am
Have you subscribed to my YouTube channel? I will have a video about this soon. Thanks for reading this blog how to make a girl think about you non-stop!
Best,
Apollonia
on November 14, 2018 at 8:37 pm
on November 3, 2018 at 9:29 pm
Thanks for the amazing job. My case is a little complicated.
Would u mine to leave me your contact so that I can call and explain my self?
I will be more than great.
Best wishes.
on November 4, 2018 at 4:30 pm
Yes, you can contact me here. Please book a session for tailored advice. Looking forward to it!
https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching-2/
Best,
Apollonia
on November 1, 2018 at 10:28 am
on November 1, 2018 at 12:55 pm
-Apollonia
on October 30, 2018 at 6:10 pm
Hope the speaking engagement overseas went well. While you were away, I sent you a gift. It came back (return to sender)? The end of the year holidays is upon us perhaps I can get it to you before the year is up. More than likely, I will like to work with you and set up an appointment for a phone conversation. Perhaps before Christmas arrives but definitely before New Years! Sometimes, a person has to treat his or her self, right?
on October 31, 2018 at 11:33 pm
Thanks so much! Happy you enjoyed it. Please email me at apollonia@apolloniaponti.com
Best,
Apollonia